love is messy?

aku mahu test ego aku.

i'm the one who will usually give in at last.

lets see how high is my ego this time. haha.

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i love to hear how married couple met. how they fall in love.

hehe.

most stories that being told to me were about arranged marriage of their parents/uncles/aunts.

its amazing on how these people can stay together and stand each other at the early stage of their marriage (provided it was a 100% arranged marriage and that they never knew each other before).

i'm pretty sure the feeling of love will develop, will be there along the course. if not at once (say "jatuh cinta pandang pertama" when the guy puts the ring on probably? hehe), then it will for sure be built slowly, each second each minutes each day between the two of them. as the saying goes "tak kenal maka tak cinta".

so yeah when they were living together under one roof, they have lotsa time to fall in love kan? hahaha.


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what im trying to say is.. they still make a good couple and a happy marriage that lasted till the last heartbeat.

so the question is.. whether love/boyfren/girlfren-thingy-before-kawen is relevant?

well this is a very subjective one. provided that NOW we're not in those era.. where guys are more nice/more baek/more trustworthy. is it? hahaha. there might be some guy to run into me with a parang for this statement. huhu.

however provided that statement is true, it is relevant for us to know our partner first, before deciding to get married. kan?

BUT as we can see/hear, there were cases where marriage that being built on this platform got messed up and ruined.

BUT note. not all.

AND note. not all arranged marriage succeed.

oh crap.

this is getting more complicated and tougher.

i got combinatorics to think of. AND it is more important and relevant for me at this moment. hahaha.

anyway the conlusion for this crap is (i think)..
the choice is always upon us. we're big enough to make decision. so yeah..think! and think wisely! with your brain. not your heart. (BUT sometimes following our heart is better kan hehe).

"LU PIKIR AHH SENDIRI"

p.s. life is messy. love is messier. (Catch and Release 2007)